A big butt that attracts men's attention is a complex for women. I can't put my pants on because my butt gets stuck in it, I can't sit on the train without pushing my butt in, I often get molested, etc. ``If you show off your ass like this, you won't be able to work!'' Tia, an office lady, is misunderstood and sexually harassed by her boss even though she has no intention of doing so. I want to have a small butt and go to a beauty salon, but I get rubbed.