``After marrying my husband, I realized that looks alone are not enough for a man...'' Asako Takanashi, 40 years old, a working esthetician working at a beauty salon for women, married for 10 years, mother of one child. ``My husband was an employee of a company that came in and out of the store where I worked, but at the time he was 6 years younger than me, young and good-looking, so I thought I was lucky and accepted his proposal.'' Even after we got married and had children, I continued to love him for a while. His lack of sexual experience and technique didn't bother him because of his feelings and visuals. This has only become more apparent in the last five years. “I was so busy raising my children that I had to return to work to make a living, and I was exhausted.